Chinese Personal Pronouns: 我, 你, 他, 她
Chinese personal pronouns are refreshingly simple: no case changes, no gender agreement, and just one suffix (们) to make any pronoun plural. The only catch is that 他, 她, and 它 are all pronounced tā — context does the gender work in speech.
The Full Pronoun Table
| Chinese | Pinyin | English |
|---|---|---|
| 我 | wǒ | I / me |
| 你 | nǐ | you (singular, informal) |
| 您 | nín | you (singular, formal/polite) |
| 他 | tā | he / him |
| 她 | tā | she / her |
| 它 | tā | it (non-human) |
| 我们 | wǒmen | we / us |
| 你们 | nǐmen | you (plural) |
| 他们 | tāmen | they / them (male or mixed) |
| 她们 | tāmen | they / them (all female) |
| 它们 | tāmen | they / them (non-human) |
Making Pronouns Plural with 们
Add 们 (men) to any personal pronoun to make it plural. The suffix is unstressed and loses its tone in natural speech.
- 我 → 我们 (I → we)
- 你 → 你们 (you → you all)
- 他/她/它 → 他们/她们/它们 (he/she/it → they)
Polite You: 您 (nín)
您 is the formal second-person pronoun. Use it with elders, customers, teachers, and anyone you want to show extra respect. It has no plural form — in formal settings you would use 您们 only rarely, and many speakers simply avoid it.
- 您好, nín hǎo — formal greeting (vs. 你好 informal)
- 您贵姓?, Nín guì xìng? — "May I ask your surname?" (polite)
Distinguishing 他/她/它 in Speech
All three are pronounced tā. In spoken Mandarin, listeners rely entirely on context, topic, and surrounding nouns to understand which is meant. The written distinction (different characters) is a modern invention borrowed from Western grammar — classical Chinese had no such split.
Subject, Object — No Change
Unlike English (I/me, he/him, they/them), Chinese pronouns do not inflect for grammatical role. 我 is both "I" and "me", 他 is both "he" and "him". Word order and context carry the meaning.
- 我爱你 — wǒ ài nǐ — I love you.
- 你爱我 — nǐ ài wǒ — You love me. (Same characters, reversed order.)
Examples
Personal pronouns in context
| Chinese | Pinyin | English |
|---|---|---|
| 我是学生。 | Wǒ shì xuésheng. | I am a student. |
| 你叫什么名字? | Nǐ jiào shénme míngzì? | What is your name? |
| 他在哪里? | Tā zài nǎlǐ? | Where is he? |
| 她很漂亮。 | Tā hěn piàoliang. | She is very pretty. |
| 它是我的猫。 | Tā shì wǒ de māo. | It is my cat. |
| 我们一起去吧。 | Wǒmen yīqǐ qù ba. | Let's go together. |
| 你们都来了吗? | Nǐmen dōu lái le ma? | Did you all come? |
| 他们是朋友。 | Tāmen shì péngyou. | They are friends. |
Common mistakes
The three-way written split is modern and phonetic; spoken Mandarin has always used one sound for all third-person singular pronouns.
Chinese nouns do not grammatically require plural marking. 们 on a noun is optional emphasis, not standard grammar, and never doubled.
Using 你 with a senior can come across as rude or overly familiar. 您 signals respect and social awareness.
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- 1Multiple choice
Which pronoun would you use to address a professor politely?
- 2Multiple choice
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- 3True or false
True or false: 他 and 她 are pronounced differently.
- 4Fill in the blank
Translate "it" (referring to an animal) into Chinese.
- 5Match the pairs
Match each pronoun to its English meaning.
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